Summer of Change #22: Let it go


Let it go. Stop obsessing. Stop worrying. It wasn’t yours in the first place.

As humans, we tend to worry or stress about a lot of inconsequential things that we have absolutely no control over. Well, the fact is, we do have some control, we just don’t know how to wield it. And our control is not over the circumstance as much as the end result. And our worries, obsessions and other harmful emotions just push our goals further away from us.

If you worry you'll get sick? Chances are you will.

If you worry your significant other will leave you? Chances are you will push them away.

So let it go. It no longer matters that your neighbor gossiped about you and said some nasty things. Stop thinking about it, let the anger go. As long as you concentrate on it, you will just attract more of that kind of negativity into your life. The more you let it go, the less you’ll see.

Stop obsessing. No. Obsessing just brings out the kind of vibration you truly do not want. Because if we obsess on something, our focus becomes very narrow and that is all we notice and if that is all we notice, that will be all that we attract.

So just let it all go. It doesn’t matter. Focus on the good, the positive, the wonderful goals you have in store. Because let me tell you. The universe hungers to give it to you. Get rid of the bad stuff so that all the good stuff can rush to you.

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